Monday, August 30, 2010

Hurricane Earl

From Drop Box


Nana and Dr. Danks are in St. Maarten.  So is Hurricane Earl.  I spoke with my mom this morning.  They have power, water, and cell phone, but no TV.  They are shuttered up in their condo on the Dutch side of the island.  They have not felt the building move so they feel pretty safe.  They sent Chatham and Johnathan home yesterday.  I don't know why they didn't go ahead and come home with them but I'll ask that question later when they are safe at home!

Please pray for their safety, comfort, and ease of mind.  They are due to come home on Saturday.


From Drop Box

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Bailey Mill

We spent a fun day at the Smith's cabin at Bailey Mill last Saturday.  Charlie is an attorney with Stephen's firm (the only other attorney in the St. Marys office) and he and his wife, Tricia, have a cabin on the Satilla River.  It's a beautiful, peaceful place about 45 minutes from St. Marys.  It's still in Camden County but is in the far western part of the county, maybe 30 miles or so upriver from the ocean.  You take a two-lane road out of Woodbine, then a dirt road to get there.  Charlie and Tricia invited the St. Marys office up there for the day and we had a wonderful time!  We canoed, swam, saw lots of wildlife, ate lots of yummy food, rode the inflatable water bed thingy, and had an all around great time!






Friday, August 13, 2010

Just to Clarify

Stephen said that I sounded a little harsh in my last post.  Please don't think that I am worried about our teachers or administration.  Many of these people are some of the most talented, intelligent, and dedicated people I know.  For example, my friend, Beth, is the Challenge (ie, gifted) teacher at SMES.  She is so smart and does some really interesting projects with her students.  I pray that Mary Grace and Elsie will both have the privilege of being in her class one day.  Coincidentally, she also happens to be the child of two lawyers!
Mary Grace's teacher, Mrs. Lang, is what I consider the perfect Kindergarten teacher.  She is so soft-spoken and sentimental.  It is clear that she loves all of the children in her class.  She treats them all equally.  She goes to our church and I have been in several Bible Studies with her.  I have seen what a love she has for God and for these little people who she teaches everyday.  The same goes for Mrs. Ricker, our parapro.  We are so blessed to have both of these women as Mary Grace's teachers.
I could go on and on about the dedicated and talented people I know who work in our school system.  There is our friend and church music director, Stan, who is so gifted in music and who views his profession as his calling from God and his school as his own mission field.  There's Mr. McClendon, the SMES principal, who is so kind to our family and graciously placed Mary Grace with the teacher we requested.  And there are so many others.
My concern is in regards to how our federal and state governments have done everything possible to stifle the creativity and uniquness of these people.  The federal government demands that "no child be left behind".  This has translated into the notion that everyone, despite disability, intelligence, or talent level, should be equal.  I'm sorry, but that is just not reality.  And to evaluate our schools and teachers on how close they come to meeting this impossible standard, our state imposes harsh, objective testing on our kids.  All of our kids, even the ones who, because of disability, couldn't possibly be expected sit at a desk and take a test.  Georgia does all of this while cutting state funding to education.  In fact, I've read that our current governor, Sonny Perdue, has cut state funding to education every year since he became governor almost 8 years ago.  On a personal level, that means that my child is in class with 22 other children.  It also means that, this year, she will only be in school for 165 days.  Couple these two issues and who do you think is going to be put on the backburner?  The child who comes into Kindergarten knowing all of her phonics, colors, and basic shapes and how to sit still, take turns, write her name and read many sight words or the child who has never been in school, never been read to at home, and never taught how to sit and listen.  If these children have to be on equal footing by the time the state starts testing them, who is going to get more attention?
My other concern is the lack of any basis for a moral code in our schools.  I understand the political and legal issues behind separation of church and state.  But how can a school instill a moral or ethical code in children when there is no cornerstone for it?  How do you teach a child right from wrong if you don't have a Biblical basis for those lessons?  Without God, what's the point?
I know that much of what Mary Grace learns, both academically and morally, will be up to Stephen and me.  That is fine with me, we have the time, intelligence, academic background, financial ability, and determination to make sure she learns what she needs to be a successful adult.  But what about other kids who don't have the same privileges?  And what about our talented teachers who are suffocating under shorter school years, larger classes, and the requirement that all students be equal?
So, those are my concerns.  I hope I don't offend anyone.  If I did, fire away!

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Pick Up

Mary Grace had a great day at school.  She said that they learned "about being good for your class".  They didn't go to gym class today, even though they are scheduled for that on Tuesdays and Thursdays.  I guess that will start next week.  I met Miss Julie at her house and walked over with her to pick up the after school kids.  Here are some photos of that:

Here she comes with Mrs. Lang, Mr. McClendon, and Ella-Morgan.




Kindergarten!

It's official.  I have left my child in the hands of the State of Georgia to "educate".  I am trying to have a good attitude about this but it is difficult.  We have a beautiful new school building with everything money can buy, Mary Grace gets to walk to and from school (how many kids can say that these days?), we got the teacher we requested, who also happens to be Mrs. Lentz's (Green Apple teacher) sister, and Mary Grace has a few friends from Happy Apple in her class.  BUT, there are 23 kids in her class!!!!! 23!!!!!!!  How is one teacher supposed to teach 23 5-year-olds?  I have other concerns as well but I won't write those here for fear of sounding like a complete jerk.  I'm just sad that we don't have a reasonable, simple alternative.  The closest accredited private school is an hour away in Brunswick.  And transfering her to any other school, including another public school, would create a child care problem for us.
I had a wonderful experience in elementary school: a small class, a tight-knit group of friends, and a solid, faith-based education.  I just want the same thing for my little girls.
We all went together this morning to drop her off.  We parked and walked her into her classroom.  She greeted her teacher then went straight to the reading corner, picked up a book, and sat on the bean bag to read.  She told me, "Momma, this is why I wanted to get this teacher."  (Mrs. Lang has a very special reading corner with a tree and two bean bags.)
Here are some photos from this morning and Open House:


We met Lainee on the way in.
Boom Chicka Boom Tree (outside of her classroom)
Under the Boom Chicka Boom tree inside of the classroom
Ella-Morgan is in her class.
Class roster
The window of her classroom.  It looks out onto Osborne St.
The Media Center
Media Center (view two)
We took a ride in the golf cart after Open House.